A border we have lost
There was a time when the end of the day had a name. It was called the veillée. When night fell and the work stopped, people gathered around a lamp or a fire, spoke in low voices, sewed, told stories, and simply let the day settle before going to sleep. That moment was nothing out of the ordinary, and that is precisely why it mattered, it offered everyone a soft border between the bustle of the day and the rest of the night.
Our evenings today look little like that. They have filled with screens and notifications, stretched by work that never quite stops, emptied of those small slow gestures that once closed the day. We end our days slumped and distracted more often than truly at rest, and many feel it dimly, without quite being able to name it.